strawberry-transneu
March 1, 2026 at 5:07:00 PM
hey. i read your blog on masculinity and role models. what a lovely post, and one i relate to a lot!
it can be very hard to be a guy and be a feminist. it can be very hard to have a complicated relationship with your gender. it can be very hard to feel like your male identity has to look like the fucking partiarchial bullshit you see all the time, and its easy to feel like a failure of a guy when you cannot fit into it the same.
know youre not alone. being a soft nice guy is the best kind of guy you can be, because thats who you are.
if their masculinity or manhood has to be based off being an asshole, fuck that and make your own.
also, luca is my favorite movie too. have a nice day, man!
Replied on: March 4, 2026 at 3:50:17 PM
Oh hey! You're my first Guestbook entry ✮ Thank you for taking the time to check out my site and to read the blog post. I appreciate your insight! It's always comforting to hear there are other people who relate...makes you realize we're all out here trying to carve out our own paths even though we might not have had the best examples but we're here trying our best anyway and we're all in this together in a way.